Say What I Think

On Friday night my husband and I had a little disagreement. He was convinced he could see the cop light flashing at 98th st. from hwy 494 which isn’t exactly possible. What he didn’t explain was that he wasn’t all the way to the hwy and the accident was not all the way down to 98th. So I told him you can not see that far, not even on a good day, or I would have changed roads. Well there are a couple of close little hills to these points and if both are on the top of the hill you can see things. He raised his voice at me, and I yelled at him. Yes I yelled at him, I wasn’t feeling good or at least not emotionally. I stay home all day take care of dad take his crap and then he comes home and is grouchy at me. I just wasn’t in the mood.
Well we made it to our restaurant and frankly I wasn’t talking to him. Until he brought up the church and worship team, and how I was on it.. I didn’t get the email. So he called the leader, and it worked out where hubby just forward me the email. I still was fairly cranky at hubby, and dad. I don’t know why, I feel so uptight Friday. Hubby kept bugging me about wanting to go to the book store, and I told him I didn’t want to until I knew how much I was spending on the Ipod touch we was getting. Well at the restaurant we ran into some one from our congregation. We talked to him for a few minutes, he’s one of those people who seem to put a person in a good mood just by being around them. I don’t know why, everytime I see him if I am in a mood, he normally brights it by a simple hi. So we was eating and waitress came back at the end of dinner and told us one of my customer paid your dinner. Wow, how nice. Well Hubby started feeling bad because of being difficult with me. He wanted to go to target. Wanted to say I am sorry, and get my honey I love you gift. He saved for a little while to be able to help me get a ipod touch. So we went to target.
Okay this is the first place we went wrong. Hubby and I find a ipod touch we liked, and the stuff we wanted. We never came home with it that night because the guy at the register did something wrong and then voided the credit card transaction, even though we told him not to.. Hubby wanted to pay 150, and I was going to pay 108$ pretty much hubby paid the same price he got on his. I got the warranty, and accessories, which I had to pay for. Well the guy at target told us he could do it as 2 transaction. Okay, great well he missed up put it all on hubby card, which meant hubby only had 20$ in that account.. Ouch, so hubby got loud, and sometimes that threatening, which anyone who knows hubby knows he sometimes get loud when frustrated. I do to, so people must think we are going to kill each other but neither one of us get physical with the other. He a good man, but I can see how the guy would have simply froze but shoot he should have called for help if he didn’t know what he was doing. The card company was going to keep a hold on it for 48 hours, which upset hubby. We where taken to customer service, and one of their people dealt with us. He gave us 4 coupon with 3$ off because of how badly the cashier did with dealing with us. He sees us always in there getting our products, so he was concerned that customers like us was upset. And I have had some troubles there which has probably been seen, but i have always been nice, even when one of their cashier was rude with me. So we are know, but even I have moments. The guy at customer service did a great job dealing with hubby, and I took over dealing with him, and got hubby on the phone with the card company. Target faxed a form over to the card company to get hubby money set free.. In the end we got my honey I love you gift from Wal-mart for a little less but more on that later.
We decided against target because walmart was a little lower cost, and the mistake that happened.